Supercoolnessman's Super...Cool...Site?Time for the summer!
supercoolnessman
read my profile
sign my guestbook

Visit supercoolnessman's Xanga Site!

Name: Matt
Country: United States
State: Tennessee
Birthday: 1/25/1985
Gender: Male


Interests: MY SUPERCOOL, TOTALLY AWESOME WIFE!!!! Due to her, I am also into long, romantic walks, movies, nice dinners, flowers, and stuffed animals that talk and wet themselves. I also love anything magic (tricks and illusions), but I'm not great or anything. Other interests (in no particular order: Guitar, video games, Surface (TV show on NBC), poker (I'm not a gambler! Free money only!), vacations (travel and such), the Smokey Mountains, sci-fi, horror, mystery, suspense, and sleeping. Above all, I am a dedicated (and massively flawed Christian) studying for ministry in which I would help family reclaim the security and love that they all want in their relationships.
Expertise: I'm not really great at anything in particular. I serve tables fairly well. I work at a local restaurant, so if you're rich, generous, and know which restaurant I'm at, come see me (and bring ALL OF YOUR MONEY!!!!!!!).
Occupation: Student
Industry: Other


Message: message me
MSN: supercoolnessman


Member Since: 11/9/2005

SubscriptionsSites I Read
ultzy
bsiemon82
greatful_leper
ItsNotEasyBeingBig
JesseStu
joe_cool_mccall
eezy4life
doubleofive

Blogrings
JBC Kids
previous - random - next


Posting Calendar

|<< oldest | newest >>|
view all weblog archives

Get Involved!

Suggest a link

Recommend to friend

Create a site


Wednesday, August 02, 2006

It's funny that kreggles would leave his eprop today. I hadn't read it before posting this. And by the way: Kreggles, who the heck are ya?

Since July, whenever I last posted, I have been reading everything that John Rumple has posted. I remember saying that if Rumple could show where Scripture condoned homosexuality, I would change my views of the issue. After reading his devotions and other comments on other various sites, this is the conclusion I have reached: Rumple is wrong. In fact, he is a false teacher. He has taken stories from the Bible that have nothing to do with the issue of homosexuality and perversely twisted them to fit his beliefs. In essence, he has eisegeted irrelevant passages of the Bible. In his own personal comments, he has more or less refuted the authority of Scripture and its identity a revelation of God. He has stated in a roundabout way that God is found in one's experiences and not in Scripture.

2 Peter 2 soundly condemns anyone who would distort the truth, turn the innocents away, and leave the path of holiness. They are called false teachers. Peter states that they turn to physical desires and lusts and pollute the way of truth. In Matthew 18:6, Jesus says that it would be better for a man to undergo the horror of brutally drowning himself than the fate of leading a "little one" to sin.

I hate to be the hellfire and brimstone boy, but this is the path that John Rumple is heading down. I pray for his repentance and for it to come quickly.


Wednesday, July 19, 2006

Currently Listening
Away From The Sun
By 3 Doors Down
Away From the Sun
see related

IN THE FACE OF CONTROVERSY Response to John Rumple's Coming Out Announcement

(Disclaimer) To begin with, I need to start by saying that I do not condone homosexuality. In fact, I believe that the Bible defines it as a moral sin. I cannot currently accept anything but that.

I still remember the first time I met a homosexual person face-to-face. His name was Clifford, but everyone called him Johnny. He was a server at the restraunt where  I worked. In fact, he trained me, and he was one the best servers I've ever known. I thought he was "different" (for lack of a better word), but brushed the thought aside for fear of judging before I knew anything. He did not claim a religious affiliation of any kind. Johnny originally didn't want to tell me. Guess why. He knew about me. I was a Christian who was studying a Bible College. So when I saw the wedding ring on his hand, I asked how long he had been married, only to have him tell me that he wasn't married and didn't want to talk about it. I asked if he was separated. "No, someone here will surely tell you about it. I don't want to tell you because I know who you are and what you are studying."

Johnny proceeded to tell me that he was gay and had been with his partner for five years. He also proudly added that the duration of his relationship had been longer that most Christian marriages he was aware of (which was and is painfully true). He finished with a sentence that I will never forget: "I didn't tell you I was gay because I know who you are I didn't feel like hearing it."

I was stunned. Didn't feel like hearing it? I was being stereotyped! I was hurt and offended. It took the literal Strength of God for me to say, "You obviously know my position or you wouldn't have hesitated to tell me. I'm comfortable enough to respect you even though I disagree with your lifestyle. Friends?"

You know what happened? Johnny, my wife Tiffany (at the time she was my fiancee), and I became decent friends. I met Johnny's partner when I went to their home with Tiffany for a civilized, wonderful dinner party. (Tiff and I didn't drink or do anything that would damage our reputation or the reputation Johnson Bible College. Don't worry.) We asked Johnny questions about being gay, often getting quite personal. And he asked us questions about Christianity, often getting personal as well.

One day, Johnny made another statement that I will never forget: "Matt, you and Tiffany are weird. I have never met Christians who acted like you. I have never actually considered Christianity before I met you."

I'm tearing up as I'm writing because I love Johnny and his partner very much. If they are ever able to find Christ because of my wife or myself, then I believe that my life as a Christian has purpose. But why am I writing this? Because I want your props? No. Don't take this the wrong way, but if you aren't my God or my wife, then I really don't care what you think. Because I want to provide sympathy for the gay community? Wrong again. The postmodern mindset of our world does that job just fine. Then why did I tell the story about Johnny? Without trying to exhibit the self-righteous attitude of many of the Christians I'm aware of, it's because I believe that I responded the way Jesus would have responded.

"Jesus would have never condoned such a lifestyle! How can you?" This will probably be the response of many Christians. I agree with the first sentence. He would have called the sinner out. Examples of this include the woman at the well, the woman caught in adultry, and sympathetic thief. Granted, in some of the examples, the sin was not directly called out by Christ, but He was aware of it and acknowledged it. But what did He do in these three examples?

Woman at the Well: Extended the Living Water to her and the man she was living with. (I believe that He knew the woman was living with her boyfriend and intended for him to be brought in the invitation when He requested her husband.)

Woman Caught in Adultry: Ran off her accusers and gave her a second chance although He knew she had sinned against God in her actions.

Thief: Presented the man with salvation as the thief was dying for the sins Christ was atoning.

I've always been especially impressed with His reply in the story of the adulterous woman. "He who is without sin among you, let him throw a stone at her first." (John 8:7 NKJV) Despite this saying, I see several stones on the Facebook of John Rumple. I see people condemning and (whether they mean to or not) hating John because of his actions. Don't get me wrong: I believe his actions were Scripturally wrong. But I think some the comments aimed toward him (which I have been guilty of before in this case quite recently with this situation and with those situations involving homosexuals before I met Johnny) are the farthest thing from the Christlike response. Here is one of the few responses I actually found to be Christlike:

    
  
Drew Butler wrote
at 4:55pm July 14th, 2006
Mr. Rumple, i agree with you that the church needs to rethink its view on homosexuality, there is a great deal of homophobia and hatred of gays in many churches and even at JBC. i do not see homosexuality as worse than any other sin, which i think tends to be the problem in the church, people seem to believe that homosexuality is the one sin God can not save you from, i dont know that i can put God in that box, i dont feel comfortable giving an opinion on anyones salvation especially someone who has made it obvious in the class room and in chapel that Christ is someone they are extreemly passionate about, i think you and i differ on the labeling of homosexuality as sin and while this is the case i still recognize you as my brother in Christ and i want you to know i am praying for you, in earnest, as i am praying for all the students who wish to discuss this issue with you.  
 
I am surprised that so many people would attack a man for his sin when the Saviour they serve would love that same man even though he was a sinner. I'm amazed that the same Christians (not just JBC, but the church in general) who sing, preach, and "worship" would be so quick to alienate people from God through arrogant condemnation as opposed to loving instruction.
 
No one seems to have considered John's situation in all of this. Granted, I feel his actions were wrong, but let's consider for a moment. He has these feelings that he "knows" (at the time) are wrong, but what to do with them? Jesus says to deny yourself and follow Him, but that is difficult whether or not you believe it should be done and whether or not you have done it. The world says that your happiness is the ultimate salvation and that no one should dictate who you are but you. Can you not see the spiritual war that we all go through daily? Most of what I've read from people on John's facebook is "You're going to hell. I'll pray for you! Bye forever!" All that is missing is someone holding up a sign that reads, "God Hates Fags" and an invitation to attend a rally in Georgia at a church which will attempt to prove that the death of soldiers in Iraq is the direct judgment of God on the US for the rampant homosexual sin found in our nation. Maybe this seems graphic, but Christians are doing this kind of stuff everywhere! Do you know how hard it is to witness to people at my job when news reports like these are playing on CNN on every television in the restraunt? No! Why not? Because our personal beliefs, whatever they are, will be defended even at the shedding of a few jaded souls to hell. Rock on!
 
I do have some things to say specifically to certain people and groups:
 
Johnson Bible College
After reading John's letter and President Eubank's letter, I don't see where the college did anything wrong. The principles of the college are no secret and John knew them when he signed on. I'm am sorry for the college's loss of a scholar and the broken trust it has experienced. JBC has always been nothing but good to me, even when things were tough for me. I support the college in this situation.
 
Students Who Have Posted "Hatorade" on John's Facebook
You have a right to be upset. I fully admit that. You were betrayed. Plain and simple. You were lied to by someone who was trusted and loved. For that I'm sorry. But to lash out with some of the things I've read is no better. And I am the first to admit that I thought horrible and hateful things when I first heard about all of this last week and that I probably thought worse things than what many do. But I reminded of something I read once for an assignment in class. I read in one of Dr. Gupton's assigned readings concerning leaders that good leaders are ones who, when they see the fallen state of others around them, don't first ask, "What can I do to change this?" Rather, they ask "Is there an attitude or action in me that needs to be changed or modified in order for a positive result to be achieved?" My attitude of feeling my school was wounded and that my wife was upset with the whole thing and that I couldn't believe someone could sacrifice their integrity like this needed to be changed if I was going to be able to view this through the eyes of Christ. My attitude was wrong! I was judgmental and hateful. (When I say judgmental, I'm not saying that calling sin "sin" is wrong. My judgments were not on a Biblical, moral basis, but on a personal basis.) I hate to be trite, but consider this situation through prayer. Also, consider what it may be like to struggle with homosexuality it is not as easy as one may believe. While I am not gay and have never acted out in any homosexual fashion, I thought I may have been gay when I was a teenager. I was still learning about the changes I was undergoing and couldn't interpret what certain feelings meant. Let me repeat: I AM NOT GAY. But I remember the fear that I went through when as an active Christian teenager I thought I might be. Now consider the fear of finding out you actually are gay.
 
John Rumple
 Unlike most of Johnson's population, I never got close to you. I always thought you were brillant and I respected you, just never thought of you as a buddy. I did always think you were gay. I'm serious. You exhibited a type of personality, work ethic, and commitment to excellence that I only saw in homosexuals. I've worked with enough homosexuals to know that they aren't all the "Oh...my...God!" feminine valley boys you see on TV. I assumed you weren't gay against my own judgment because you were at a Bible college. I'm not angry with you. I was, trust me. Not because you are gay, but because you lied about it and I feel you wounded the integrity and heart of the college. At first, I thought, "Why didn't he turn down the position if he was gay?" I remembered you saying in class that you thought homosexuality was wrong, but homosexuals should be loved and thought, "Why not just admit that he thought homosexuality was okay and present the evidence, even if he "stayed in the closet"? "When he preached about the importance of doing what is good vs. right" (which I loved by the way) "why not mention something then?" While I still think that you were wrong in lying and that there is no justification for it, I understand your logic. The desire to serve God is intense, and in your thoughts, the end justified the means. While I can't agree, I can understand. And many students benefitted from your being here, even if in anger they refuse to admit it.
     Now that I've talked about what you did wrong, let me say this: I know that Gay Revision Theology is an up-and-coming issue, and I want the facts. Now, I don't mean facts by "why homosexuality is okay" but rather "how homosexuals believe that they can prove homosexuality is okay." Basically, I want to be informed about opposing views. So, I will be visiting your site and seeing what you have to say. I will try to be openminded as well because, although I really don't believe that you will be able to, I would love for someone to show me how Scripture doesn't condemn homosexuality. I'd like heaven to be as inclusive as possible, and I don't feel I've gained an adequate enough understanding of grace and its provisions to know how far it reaches. I am fearful that your study will be one of eisegesis and not exegesis, only because if I were gay, I would want to find a way to make the Bible say its okay and I know your smart enough to do that. I don't want you to make the Bible say homosexuality is okay. I want the Bible to say that on its own. I want you to show me where. If you do, then I'll agree with you. Unfortunately, I don't believe the Bible says that.
     Some other issues I wanted to bring up with you:
 
          1. Where does the Bible justify lying in order to serve? I thought our service was to be based on integrity.
 
          2. Where does the Bible justify sex outside of marriage? If homosexuality is morally acceptable according to Scripture, then wouldn't guidelines for marriage and things of that nature apply to it as well? I ask this because I know you live with your partner, Christian, and, based on what I know of unmarried couples living together, I assume you are sleeping together. If you are not, please correct me.
 
 
 
To all who love me, hate me, or don't know what to think of me because of this post, leave me some props. If you are a non or former JBC student and have no idea what all of this is about, where are some sites to help you understand followed by Dr. Eubanks response:
 
 
 
Dear Students:

By now many of you will have read the letter posted on the Internet by John Rumple concerning his "outing" announcement and condemnation of the college and the church.  I have been agonizing over whether to let his letter speak for itself without reply or frame a response.  I have decided to make a brief explanation.

In all honesty I have to tell you that concerns have been raised related to what John has now revealed.  He was confronted with these concerns, denied them vigorously, and provided "evidence" to corroborate his denial.  After some investigation the
administration was satisfied with his response.  Heavy reliance was placed on people here on campus who have known him for twenty years and were absolutely convinced that he was a man of integrity and that his denials were trustworthy.

John knew without question our understanding of the Bible's teaching on homosexuality and our commitment to a position based on that understanding before he ever sought a faculty position.  We make that clear even in our student handbook.

My biggest disappointment in this whole episode is that an alumnus and faculty member in whom we placed so much trust lied to us in order to gain and keep employment at the college and now justifies his lies in the name of Jesus Christ. Please include John and the college in your prayers.  God still reigns, and His Word is true.

Sincerely,
David Eubanks
President


Monday, June 05, 2006

Still haven't figured out how to get music on here. I'm not sure how to find a site that has the music I want. If anyone wants to help, I want "Thy Mercy" by Caedmon's Call from their "In the Company of Angels:A Call to Worship" CD. Also, Zachatello...Who are you? I'm pretty sure you're a JBC student, but I can't figure out which one. Are you no longer a student? Anyway, just curious.

Tiffany and I will do something tomorrow that we haven't done for a long time: Go on an all-day date. Being married has actually produced a decrease in our dating. Before, going out was when we saw each other. Now, waking up, going to sleep, and the day in between is when we see each other. So sometimes we think "Why go out? We can spend time here!" But we need some "out" time. We are going to Dollywood in the morning until it gets warm and then we are retreating to Tanger Outlets for shopping. (That's right. A guy wanting to shop. My lady's lucky.) Now that my head is the size of a small country, I'll call it quits for this addition of...this.


Sunday, June 04, 2006

So, I'm trying to figure out how to play music on my page, but I can't figure out how to do it because I have no clue what I'm doing! Anyway, help me and I post something of more interest!


Thursday, June 01, 2006

I am such a horrible Xanga-poster. I know. I just don't feel like anyone ever reads this stuff so why post? I've gotten a couple comments, though. So maybe I'll post more.

I am struggling with whatever it is that God is trying to teach me right now. I have so many people (Christians and unbelievers) at work asking me questions about what I believe and giving lackluster answers for what they believe. They're the type of answers that say, "I don't care, just as long as I don't offend anybody." Don't get me wrong: I believe that all people should be treated with fairness and respect and that the type of people Jesus would hang out with were the homosexuals, convicted sex offenders, and mothers of aborted babies. That seems like a vulgar way of putting it, but He wasn't hanging out with the "A" list types. But, He also clearly identified sin when He saw it. I just wish that people would stand for something. These people have been this way since I met them, and I don't know why I'm so bothered by it all of a sudden.

In other news, Tiffany and I got some yard work done! We have a flower garden in front of our house and some more flowers behind our house. We also laid some stone for a little extension off to the side of our porch and put up some lawn furniture so we can sit outside on the nice evenings. I still have some work to do on the stone, but everything looks nice.

I leave in a little over a week to speak at a 4th-6th grade summer week of camp. I found out a little while ago that I will also be leading worship. I'm expecting a good time, but I hope that I can focus on the task of teaching these children about Christ.

Well, friends, I'll talk to you later!



Next 5 >>